It's the scariest question when you're in a relationship. Well not the scariest, but it's scary. You start to ask yourself if you really are inlove with the person or you're just inlove with the idea of love. Ask yourself, what did you really love about them? If your answer is mainly about their physical features then you're not inlove with the person. You're just attracted to them. Love isn't about what they look like on the outside, it's about what they feel on the inside.
Love is not an emotion that can be proven but it can be shown. Love cannot be specified as one thing because it is a million things. I use to believe in love at first sight, but now I go against it. I believe you can be attracted to someone when you first look at them, but you can't love them because if you were asked at that moment what you loved about them, you'd be descibing what they looked like.
Some people meet there future husband/wife, others fall for their best friend. For me; love is about caring about each other, making each other happy, becoming stronger from difficult situations, and never giving up on each other. Love is different to everyone but everyone wants it. What they don't realise, is with love comes pain. The person you love can be the one to hurt you the most.
Love in high school isn't forever, it's something that prepares you for the real deal. It's hard to believe that love will last forever when everyone around you proves to you that it doesn't last for more than a few years, or even a few months. I guess things will be different when we're older, love will truly mean something. I hope to find that one guy that can say 'I love you' to me, and actually mean it.
I don't know how you can tell the difference between being 'inlove' and being inlove with the idea of love, but I think I'm starting to. What does that mean? I don't know... yet.
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