Tuesday, 24 January 2012

Imperfection is beauty.

There's so many girls out there that go on and on about their imperfections. They go on about how they hate all these parts of there body and how they're ugly. It's time for you girls to listen up and listen good. These imperfections, that you hate so much, are what makes you unique. They make you your own person. Everyone was born an original, don't die as a copy.

I have my imperfections and yes, until recently, I haven't been embracing them like I should've been at the start. When we were kids we never cared about what we looked like and what we wore. Then high school came and we became more aware of our body figure, our weight, our fashion, our hair and make up. Sure now and again it's okay to point out your imperfections, but on a daily basis... You're just making yourself look like an attention seeker.

These imperfections are what defines us as an individual and what makes us beautiful in our own way. Most girls can't even take a compliment and I think it's rather rude. If I compliment someone it's a one time thing, if they respond with something like 'Shut up, I'm not' my response to that would be 'Fine whatever'. I won't sit there and reassure them over and over again. If they can't take a compliment then that's there problem. I, myself, hate compliments but I say thanks anyway because it's not like most people go around complimenting people all day. So a heads up, next time you get complimented don't be a bitch and thank them, whether they were being sarcastic or not. Just remember that when you're being let down by people, it's because they don't feel good about themselves so they make others feel bad about themselves in order to make them feel good. Not all girls and guys will be all 'oh hey don't you look stunning today'.

Everyone's beautiful in there own way and they have a right to feel good about themselves. If you're the one letting others down, then you're the one with the problem not them. I'm not afraid to admit I do judge people, even though I shouldn't. I don't judge them by what they wear. I judge them based on how they treat others and what they did in the past but that's just me. I never hold looks against people because honestly I can't talk when it comes to looks. One of my goals for this year is to be nicer and not judge anyone based on what they did in the past, because I'm always saying the past is the past and you can't move on with the future if you can't let go of the past.

Beauty isn't a look on the face, it's a light in the heart. Beauty doesn't revolve around what you look like, it's based on your personality. If someone's good looking but a complete bitch, they have no right to be called beautiful. Looks isn't everything, personality counts too. Would you rather marry someone kind, smart but isn't very good looking, or someone attractive but a complete asshole? If someone calls you ugly, tell them what beauty is and to look in the mirror. No-one should be put down based on there looks. So if you're one of those girls going around calling people ugly and putting them down; honey look in the mirror, just because your attractive does not mean your beautiful.


Perfect is overrated.

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